STOP THE SHAME!
I recently participated in a conversation that got me thinking about all the shame associated with sex. One of my friends admitted to exploring sexuality from a young age and another friend admitted to being uncomfortable with the idea of masturbation, both friends were laughed at and teased for being “too sexual” and “not sexual enough” respectively.
Shame doesn’t do anybody any bit of good, what does it matter if someone’s personal buisness isn’t what you think is right? What you think is right is just right for you. Don’t force anyone to conform to your ideals no matter how right you think they are and don’t conform to any ideals that are not your own out of shame.
Stop sex shaming
Stop virginity shaming
Stop kink shaming
Stop woman shaming
Stop man shaming
Stop fetish shaming
I love and accept you as you are, no matter how “different” you may seem. And remember, there is a place for you somewhere.
Yours in Queerness,
Posted on May 12, 2012, in Ideas, Life, Love, Music/Pop Culture, My Body, My Mind, My Past, Other, Politics, The Future, The Past, The Present, Uncategorized and tagged advice, crush, fetish, gender, kindness, kink, kinky, Love, pretty, queer, respect, self, sex, shame, shaming, slut, teen, two spirit, virgin, you, youth. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.